
Are you a parent of a preteen (ages 9 to 13)? If so, you’ve probably noticed some significant shifts in your child’s behavior. These changes are normal, but they can also present new challenges for parents. Here are some common hurdles you might encounter during the “tween” years and tips on how to navigate them effectively:
1.Friends Taking Priority Over Family
As children move into their preteen years, they often become more focused on spending time with friends rather than family. While this shift can feel personal, it’s a normal part of growing up. Socializing with peers promotes independence, helps them build life skills, and broadens their social circles. However, it’s still important to set aside regular family time to maintain a strong connection.
2.Low self-confidence – Preteens are highly influenced by what others think of them, which can often lead to a dip in self-confidence. As a parent, you can foster their self-esteem by being mindful of your own language. Compliment your child’s efforts and abilities, and avoid making negative comments about your own or others’ appearances. Your example sets a powerful tone for how they’ll view themselves.
3.Communication Barriers – Many preteens start to pull away from sharing details about their day-to-day lives, especially when parents ask direct questions. If you’re finding it difficult to connect, try engaging in activities they enjoy, such as watching their favorite TV show together. This low-pressure environment can make them feel more comfortable opening up, and it can create opportunities to discuss more complex topics like peer pressure or mental health.
Need Help with Preteen Parenting? Speak with a Therapist
Raising a preteen comes with unique challenges, but you don’t have to navigate them alone. If you’re struggling to manage your child’s behavior or want guidance on effective parenting strategies, reach out today. We’ll schedule a therapy session at a time that works for you and provide personalized advice to help you and your preteen thrive during these transitional years.