You may have heard about the benefits of setting boundaries with family, friends, and coworkers. By clearly communicating your needs and wants, you can boost your self-esteem, prioritize your mental and emotional health, and enhance your overall well-being. In the long run, establishing boundaries can also improve your relationships, as they help foster mutual respect instead of resentment. But did you know there are different types of boundaries? Here are three of the most common:
- Physical boundaries
Physical boundaries involve communicating how you want to be touched and how much personal space you need. For example:- You can let a colleague know that you prefer to shake hands rather than hugging or kissing.
- This also applies to your personal space and belongings. For instance, you can inform your in-laws that you’re not comfortable with them entering your bedroom while babysitting.
- Material boundariesMaterial boundaries define how you manage lending money and possessions, as well as how you want them to be treated. For example:
- You can set a limit with a friend by saying you can’t afford to lend more than $100.
- You can tell your son that he can borrow your car only if he returns it with a full tank of gas.
- Time boundaries– Time boundaries specify how you want to use your time and how you communicate these preferences. For example:
- You can inform your boss that you’re unable to stay past your scheduled work hours.
- You can ask your spouse to avoid calling or texting while you’re at dinner with friends, except in emergencies.
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